When my mother told that she want to buy a new gold earring, I first looked at her ear to see whether she wore one.She had the upcoming marriage of her cousin in mind, but I felt she was being overcautious of the minor flaws in her existing earring being detected.This time I decided to check it out myself and thus I went for a marriage function after long eight years.
And as soon as I crossed the gate to the brides house I was proved to be wrong.
"Pushpa,new earing..!" exclaimed a flashing red colored saree.
"Oh,did she change the other one" said a blue colored saree,turning back
"But the other one was better" said a green saree,appearing from nowhere
"The saree looks good" said the green saree taking the pleats in her right hand and thereby displaying the bangles.
The blue saree and red saree exchanged glances
"Is that new ?"asked the red saree pointing to the forefinger of green saree's left hand.And I felt I would faint.
Feeling disgusted with myself for having come to the function I positioned myself in a corner to avoid being noticed.But the corner expressed it's inherent dislike to me and threw me to the central scene.And here comes a maxim.Wearing dresses in which you won't be noticed is the best way to be noticed at place where everyone wears dresses that will noticed.Still with some adjustments I managed to keep pace with the process.And I sat there like a fool(I could have said watching the fools,but let the majority rule as always).
Snobbery might be a feminine trait,thought I. But within minutes men made it evident that they are not willing to give up.
The imperial monarchs,referred to as uncles and grand uncles appeared in off-white dhoti and shirt creating fuss out of nothing -commanding the photographers as to from which angle the photos ought to be taken,scolding those children who were walking around for doing so and those who were not walking around for not doing so etc etc.I was at the brink of bursting out,but in memory of the great philosophers Stoic and Zeno I controlled myself.
After one round of discussion on saree's and ornaments ladies turned to their daughters and started describing their qualities.Boys meanwhile where selecting their future brides.And girls were enjoying the glances tactfully while acting as if they are unaware.Some middle aged men followed the monarchs like shadow,gaining experience for future.Newly married husbands threw proud looks at their beautiful wives.While some middle aged men were found to be in a dilemma..I slowly began to enjoy the scene,but before long it was time to leave for Temple.There again I had to take the aid of Stoic and Zeno.
Marriage party got delayed by ten minutes and bridegroom's party refused to tie knot as it was well past the scheduled time(fixed as per astrological calculations).And here comes the great game of God,Imperial monarchs became beggars in front of the monarchs of the other party.
I simply wanted to walk up to the groom,give him a slap and to walk back.But instead I slipped to the back veranda.After a few moments of delightful solitude, my hand drifted to my pocket and I found myself looking at the photo of three girls of which I was one.
Seven years back we were discussing the issue of marriages under the graceful evening sun unwilling to set so early.
"I will accept that boy who shall give me white rose"-said Ann in a voice suffused with passion.
"You mean a rose a day"-asked I
"Shut-up" said she"Romance is a sweet emotion which nerds like you both will never understand".
Within seconds she repositioned herself-staring into the eternal depths of pure love,and continued-
"....as a sign of eternal love"
"What as a sign of eternal love?"-asked Monica as if she was then suddenly dropped to that spot from above.
But Ann is not the kind of girl who gives up.After an hour of speech on eternal love she turned to me
"What is your view of an ideal proposal?"
"I want a guy to take my hand and to walk to an advocate.."
"You mean to file a divorce petition"-asked Monica
This time it was Ann's turn to laugh.But Monica was still doubtful.
"Stop it;To marry via special marriage act..:"-said I
"Not a bad idea,but you can file the divorce petition as well.."said Ann still laughing.."Two in one"
And Ann turned to Monica
"Now don't ask me such nonsense"-said Monica."I hate men"
Nostalgia shifted from the soul and appeared as a smile on my face.
Then my phone rang.
"Where are you now?"-asked my mother from the other end."Radhamani aunty wants to see you"
"Actually I am busy in the make up room"-said I, thanking my tongue for the timely excuse.
"But I am in the make up room"-said my mother
"Sorry..Actually I am in the wash room,but seeing people comb their hair I thought it was the make-up room"-said I.
"Shut up and come over here"-said my mother.
"But I haven't had my food yet"-said I trying another excuse.
"So you haven't had your food yet"-said a monarch who passed by in grumbling voice."It is time to leave"
Meanwhile marriage was over and monarch's on the both sides were standing together.Saree combinations nearly remained the same.
And I walked hoping that my legs would carry me to some spot other than make-up room.But what is to happen is bound to happen.The colorful combination was met on the way.
"So you haven't had your food yet"-said a red saree(I am not sure whether it was same saree which I saw in the morning)
"Still there is five minutes left"-said a blue saree
"..hm.it is ok.."-said I
"Shall I bring you a glass of payasam"-asked the compassionate among the group
"..ai no.."-said I
"But you shouldn't skip your lunch"-said another voice.
I hoped for some external aid.And a monarch did the job by ordering the group to get into the vehicle.
And no fuss in that matter, a delay may cause the group to stay in that place till the time becomes right again.
I followed them with some relief.Still wondering whether customs were made for humans or humans for customs-This time with greater vehemence as the custom had my lunch as its cost.
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